It is estimated that 80% of the adult population has either had or continues to have some form of sexual fantasies. As long as these fetishes do not cause other people any harm, why not explore your inner desires? The world of BDSM is filled with interesting people who believe in bringing these kinks to […]
The communities that are built around BDSM are generally safe places with sensible members who show respect to each other, enabling payers to explore the limits of their kinks and fetishes. Whilst many enjoy being pushed to and possibly above their barriers, it can be a fine line between enjoyable punishment and abuse. To the
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Kinksters seem to identify themselves as a Dom or a Sub. But I don’t know what I am yet. Can’t I just have fun and let my kinks evolve? As you start to explore the lifestyle of kink and fetish, you may be easily confused that it is all about power play and being either
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Some hints on how to spot a fake submissive before they can cause long-lasting challenges Despite press coverage to the contrary, the BDSM community is made up of polite, discrete people with a great deal of respect for others. The enthusiasm from people interested in or trying to get into BDSM is often misguided, regularly
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The Shades of Grey trilogy launched sadomasochism and BDSM into the limelight through its success in box offices around the world. Whilst considered tame by true BDSM aficionados it certainly awoke secret, hidden desires in many people as well as the increasing the sales of sex toys around the world! Following seeing the film or
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